General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

Dawud :: Book 41 : Hadith 4770

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

When the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) was informed of anything of a certain man, he would not say: What is the matter with so and so that he says? But he would say: What is the matter with the people that they say such and such?

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